Overcoming Communication Barriers with Elderly Loved Ones: 4 Tips to Improve Communication
As we age, communication can become more challenging. Elderly individuals often face obstacles such as hearing loss, failing eyesight, and difficulty expressing themselves. Informal caregivers may find these barriers frustrating and stressful to navigate.
But fear not, there are proven ways to overcome these communication challenges when caring for an elderly loved one. Here are four effective strategies:
Maintain eye contact: When engaging with your senior, always sit face-to-face and maintain eye contact. This eliminates distractions and conveys that you are fully present. Eye contact also helps your loved one interpret your facial expressions more easily.
Listen attentively: One of the most crucial aspects of effective communication with aging adults is being a good listener. Remember that they too struggle to express themselves. Use non-verbal cues like a smile, nod, or hand gestures to show understanding. If you're still unsure, ask simple questions to help clarify their thoughts.
Communicate clearly: Be mindful of using communication methods that are clear to your loved one. Adjust your volume and pace accordingly to ensure comprehension. Consider any sensory barriers they may have - speak louder for those with hearing loss and use body language to emphasize your point for those with vision problems. In some cases, visual aids like drawings, pictures, or written words can be more effective than verbal communication.
Practice patience: Patience is key when communicating with seniors, especially when it takes time for them to understand you. It may require repetition before they grasp your message. Avoid becoming irritated or frustrated, as it won't help the situation. Instead, slow down and speak clearly until they fully comprehend.
Do you and your aging loved one have a difficult time communicating?
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Is your loved one telling you not to worry about the future, that everything will be OK ?
Are you being told that your parents are healthy and active and do not need to discuss their future plans now?
Do your conversations end up in arguments?
Do you find that your aging loved one will agree with what you say, but when the time comes to take action, they do not remember the conversation? Or they did not think you were planning to take action so soon?
Are you concerned about your loved one, but you do not have a close relationship?
Are you concerned about your loved one, but feel uncomfortable bring up any subject regarding their future care plans?
Do you live away from your aging loved one and find it difficult to have those types of conversations over the phone?
All these scenarios are common. The reasons you should talk to you aging loved one about their future care needs far outweigh the reasons not to.
These are all reasons why you and your aging loved one haven't talked – NOT, why you can't talk.
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The benefits of planning ahead are:
· Peace of mind
· Knowledge of options before you need them
· Ability to make educated health care options because you are aware of the wishes of your loved one
· Decrease stress and anxiety because you are prepared, even for a medical crisis
· Become an educated healthcare consumer
· Have systems in place or plans prepared to initiate those systems when necessary
· Aware of all insurance coverage and what is paid and not paid
· Resolving issues by choice, not crisis
The good news is that communicating with your aging loved one is really not that hard once you have the strategies and communication techniques in place.
The key to your successfully communicating is understanding who your aging loved one is and understanding their personality and personal history.
Let’s step back a moment. You feel that you grew up with your family and you probably believe that you know them very well. Yet, if you think of how different we are all, even though you may have had the same experiences, we all respond differently. Our experiences are may be similar, but are responses are unique to us.
Because I know what you're going through, I want to help you get the results you need right now.
Understanding that we all process our information differently and how this impacts our emotional responses will assist you to adapt your communication style. Effective communication techniques will allow you to get beyond the emotions, both yours and your loved ones
Having strategies in place before presenting your topic of discussion will assist your aging loved one to see that the right decision is in their best interest
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