Communicating With A Person With Dementia

As a caregiver for someone with dementia, you may find that their communication needs differ from what you're accustomed to. Explore our invaluable set of 10 practical tips for communicating effectively with individuals facing dementia.

Communicating With A Person With Dementia
Communicating With A Person With Dementia

Communication changes can be frustrating for a person living with dementia and for the people who care about them. What works will vary by person and may change over time, so approach each conversation with patience, respect, and careful listening.

Practical dementia communication tips

  • Choose a quiet space and reduce distractions such as television or background conversations.
  • Speak slowly and clearly in a calm tone, using short sentences and one question at a time.
  • Give the person time to respond. Avoid interrupting, criticizing, correcting, or arguing.
  • Listen for the meaning and emotion behind the words, and use gestures, pictures, or written notes when helpful.
  • Include the person in conversations and speak to them directly with dignity and respect.

These approaches may make conversations easier, but they do not guarantee a particular result. The Alzheimer’s Association offers additional stage-specific communication guidance. You can also review our guide to understanding dementia.

The downloadable 10-tip guide below is available to Caregiver Relief subscribers. Sign up or sign in to access the PDF.